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I am not a character

Everything you need to know about My Domination style, rules, fetishes, limits & sessions

BBW Dominatrix wearing a fur leather coat, black long straight hair, white skin, red lips, long shap poity nails, gold jewllery, mesh long gloves. She's a pro Domme offering femdom sessions from her dungeon in the city center. Mistress Kaizen is a specialist in kink education, domination and sadomaso practices. Read about how to serve her.

When you step into My space, you are meeting Me. There is no persona, no act, and no costume.

 

I am a Dominant woman who found in BDSM a safe sanctuary to make peace with Her shadows and embrace Her true self.

 

I have dedicated the past 15 years to mastering My craft, deeply studying power dynamics, continuously elevating My skills, and relentlessly evolving as a Mistress.

 

That is the very essence of My name: Kaizen. Constant evolution.

Rules

I am highly selective with whom I choose to accept.

 

Serving Me is not a right, it is a privilege that must be earned.

 

Regardless of your role or fetish category, whether you are:

  •  a submissive seeking the release of obeying My every order

  • a slave surrendering total control of your decisions and autonomy to Me

  • a man desperate to be feminized into a sissy

  • a foot fetishist yearning to worship My soles

  • an adult craving the helpless regression of a baby 

  • a masochist seeking to endure My pain

  • or simply a human seeking for a safe space to dive in your fetishes

One absolute truth remains. No matter the intensity, dynamic or the specific fantasy being explored, every single person who steps into My dungeon is fundamentally there to serve Me, submit to Me, and bow to My will. In each, uniquely, at their own way.

your application will only be considered if your desires align with Mine and your respect for My rules is absolute.

 

Continue reading to learn about My fetiches, limits, rules and conditions to serve Me.

Conditions

Session

Every session is uniquely crafted around our dynamic, our shared interests, and My specific goals. I do not repeat sessions, even for regulars who serve Me constantly; every encounter is distinctly its own. As our dynamic deepens over time, you will reach higher levels of surrender, resulting in profound pleasure for us both.

While every encounter is entirely unique, the structure of My sessions always follows the same natural progression.

The beginning is your introduction to My world, a moment for us to get to know one another, ignite our connection, and establish the exact path our dynamic will take. It’s time for you to ask any questions, and for Me to explicitly dictate the rules that will govern our scene. (Further down, I will allow you a glimpse into what those first moments at My command truly feel like).

Then comes the intense middle, the session itself. There is no need to say much about this part; it is simply where all the fun happens.

Finally, the session always concludes with aftercare, a deeply vulnerable space where we discuss your experience, process your feelings, and gather feedback to perfect your next visit. I handle this delicate drop with the exact care, lightness, and intensity it demands, offering you a rare look into a different, yet equally powerful, side of My dominance.

slave A.

“Mistress, I just wanted to express how much being under Your rule has entirely shifted my life. It has been five years since You first claimed me, and every single day I am still amazed by the absolute peace it brings me. Letting You steer my life and handing over all my choices to You has given me a focus and a drive I never had before. You shape me exactly how You want, taking me apart and putting me back together, and that is all I could ever ask for. Waking up knowing that I belong to You is my only purpose.”

Fetishes

Below, you will find a list of My interests & skills. For Me to accept your request, we need to have common interests, this doesn’t mean you have to be able or willing to take it all or even most. As long as your interests don’t go beyond My limits, it is fine. I will not perform anything that is life-threatening or illegal. I will also do not accept sessions based on practices that I do not enjoy.

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If your special fetish is not on this list, but it's also not a hard limit, mention it on your inquiry.

Some examples:

Total exchange of power

(complete control and authority over the submissive in all areas and at all times, limits might be negotiated if necessary)

slave & submissive training 

(orders, routine implementation, tasks, behavioral modification)​

Worship

(the subject is only allowed to touch the body part - such as feet - by licking, sucking, and/or kissing. Ex.: foot worship, nylon fetish, trampling, latex/rubber worship & care, hair fetish, leather worship)

Impact play

(spanking, slapping, caning, flogging, bastinado) 

Torture

(tickle torture, smothering, corporal punishment, extended confinement or imprisonment)

Nipples/breasts torture

(nipple clamps, electro stimulation, impact play, sensation play, vacuum pump)

CBT or pussy torture

(wax play, genital spanking, squeezing, ball-busting, genital flogging, electro stimulation, kneeling or kicking)

Wax play

(dripping hot wax on the body) 

Anal play

(anal training, butt plugs, pegging happens as a reward for good behaviour)

​Bondage

(restraint, restriction, shibari, mummufication)

Sensation play

(using tools such as feathers, a paddle, burlap, tickle torture, electrostimulation) 

Sploshing

(arousing messy food experience)

Sensory deprivation

(blindfolds, earmuffs, ear plugs)

Breath control

(suffocation, smothering, clothed facesitting)

Humiliation play

(verbal, wearing specific clothing, degradation, cleaning something dirty with your mouth, spiting, human furniture, human ashtray, JOI, CEI, small penis humiliation)

Objectification

(human furniture)

Soft sessions

Tease & denial

(edgeplay, tie and tease)

Chastity

(cock cage/chastity belt, orgasm denial)

Feminization

(sissification, pegging, cock cage)

Financial domination

(human ATM, cash meets, consensual blackmail, budgeting, gifts)

Consensual non-consensuality

(kidnapping, RACK)  

Coerced bi

Household servitude/house slave

Kinky Role-play

(boss & employee, doctor/nurse & patient, prison guard & inmate, teacher & student)

Pet play

(animal like behaviour, collar/leash/harness, training exercises, eating/drinking from bowls, caging)

Adult babies and diaper lovers

Golden shower 

Brown shower

After care 

Couples 

(I absolutely adore playing with couples, regardless of their gender & sexual orientation)

Women 

(cisgender men are far from being the sole focus of My desires, I love playing with women, as well as people of all genders)

Service

(be at My back & call. Exist to please Me)

Dates

(shopping, spas, fine dining, travel companion, public humiliation, fetish parties)

I'm available for sessions with other Dommes, My bull and My slaves. Inquiry on your session application.

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Consent, Safety & Limits 

All My sessions operate strictly under the principles of SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consensual) and RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink). 

Just because I enjoy certain practices does not mean you are required to enjoy them too; your consent is paramount. I will carefully study your fetishes and honour your limits.

you will always have safewords. If red is spoken, the scene stops immediately. Yellow is used to communicate you’re about to reach your limit, but wish to keep going with less intensity. This protocol guarantees your physical and psychological safety, as well as My responsibility as the Dominant. 

I will always respect your limits, and I demand you do the same for Mine. Do not ask Me to perform anything stated as a hard limit. Doing so is disrespectful not only to Me, but to yourself.

Health & Wellbeing

As a Dominant, I am responsible for your health and wellbeing during our session. you must disclose any health limitations, physical hazards, or relevant medical history in your application. This is crucial for your safety.

Limits

Hard limits

A hard limit is something that must not be done. It is off limits. 

I will not change My mind, so do NOT ask Me to perform these things as it is disrespectful.

Heavy medical play. I'm NOT ok with permanent damage.

My nudity

Vomit 

Worship/contact of any part of My body that is typically covered by a bikini.

Switching/subbing

x Racial play (completely OK with religion play!)

Any activity that is directly sexual, illegal, unsafe or non-consensual (this includes giving or receiving oral sex).

Playing without a safeword

Escort services

Orders for clothing. I am not a doll for you to dress. A pleasant way of communicating your interest for certain clothing item or style is by mentioning your interest on it, so you can be sure that, as long as your interests are aligned with My style, I will honor them.

Scripts. Scripted scenes stunt My creativity and bores Me. However, I do enjoy role-play in which roles and the setting are pre-determined but I lead the scene and what happens within it.

Hard limits
Availability

Schedule

 I am generally available Monday - Saturday | 9am - 9pm. I might allow for exceptions outside of these hours, provided there is an enticing tribute along with a very good reason why I should consider it.

 

I require advance notice to arrange a session. Requests starting with "I would like to have a session today" will rarely be granted. I am a busy woman.

Tribute 

The tribute may vary slightly depending on the location, the duration of the session, and the specific content of our scene. Once you receive a reply from Me (provided your application is successful), you will be notified of the exact tribute expected of you.

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Deposit

A deposit (50%)  is required on all sessions. This is a standard practice to filter out time-wasters and is not up for negotiation. For purposes of discretion, I offer multiple anonymous payment methods. 

The deposit is non-refundable but can be transferred to a future meeting if you notify Me a minimum of 24 hours prior to the appointment. The new date must fall within four weeks of the original date, at which point you will be required to send the remainer of the tribute. If you need to reschedule more than once, you will be asked to pay a new deposit. 

The deposit will be immediately refunded to you in full if I need to cancel the appointment from My side and you cannot or do not wish to set a new date.

Location

I am based in Lisbon, Portugal.

 

My sessions take place in My own fully equipped Dungeon in central Lisbon.

 

Within My studio, you will find a vast selection of high-quality dildos and strap-ons in all sizes, corporal punishment implements, chastity devices, ropes, bondage gear, feminization props, all types of CBT equipment, and much more.

I maintain the absolute highest standards of cleanliness. The entire space is thoroughly sanitized and cleaned after every session, using only high-quality, non-toxic disinfectants.

To view more photos and videos of the space, simply explore the rest of My website. The vast majority of My content is filmed directly within My dungeon, so browsing the visual galleries will give you a clear sense of the environment, and exactly where your slaughter will take place.

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Out of the Dungeon

I am available for cash meets, shopping trips, drinks, lunches, dinners, and fetish parties. I also accommodate public humiliation, provided it occurs discreetly, in appropriate venues or with the explicit consent of all present parties.

 

I am also available for outcalls, provided you are willing to compensate Me accordingly. 

 

Tours

you will find all My upcoming tour dates in the "blog" section or within My free Telegram group (link in the menu). Unless a specific away date is listed, you can assume I am currently in Lisbon.

Fly Me to you

I am open to visiting other Portuguese cities as well as traveling internationally. Inquiry on your application.

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BBW dominatrix offers public humiliation and out of the dungeon sessions. Mistress Kaizen operates on SSC and RACK. Book a femdom bdsm session in Lisbon, Portugal

I know you are already consumed by the curiosity of exactly what I will do to you. Allow Me to guide your imagination through the very first moments of your impending surrender

 

Picture the day of our session. Right now, your heart is racing against your mind. At this point, it is impossible to know which one is louder. Every single second spent waiting for Me is a delicious torture, forcing you to foresee the agonizing, yet arousing, path ahead. Suddenly, the vibration of your phone snaps your mind back into your body. A single message. you are summoned. The elevator ride feels silently eternal, your body suspended in a dizzying mix of gravity and weightlessness, an intoxicating anxiety you have never felt before. As the doors finally part, an unseen force pulls you forward, guided only by the sharp, rhythmic echo of My heels. One step closer, and the door opens. 

 

Did you notice how your mind went quiet?

Nothing could have prepared you for the immediate, instinctive urge to drop to your knees. Before your brain can even process it, My voice cuts through the air, ordering you to kneel down. As your knees touch the floor, every thought is wiped clean, leaving you consumed by the burning desire to please Me. The only desire left in you is Me.

Within My domain, you are not permitted to move or speak without seeking and receiving My explicit permission. I will issue orders. If you manage to fulfill them to My high standards, I might reward you. If you fail, or if you dare to disappoint Me, I will punish you. And rest assured, punishments are only fun for Me.

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Contact & Etiquette 

Address Me as Mistress, Goddess, or Queen. 

When contacting Me, communicate in a respectful and civilized manner. I will not tolerate rudeness, entitlement, or demands. 

Provide Me with detailed information about yourself, your interests, and your limits. I only reply to well-written, thoughtful requests. Do not be surprised if you are ignored for writing a lazy "Hello, how are you?" or "I want to be your slave!".

 

I am highly selective with whom I play and will readily refuse any request that does not meet My standards.

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